*Answer Regarding Husband Refusing Sexual Advances For His Wife*
*Question*
Salaam aleikum Waramontulah Wabarakatuh. Yah Sheik!
Please What's the Ruling of a Wife that refuse Sexual Advances from the Husband?
May Allah preserve you and us upon Khair
Walaykum As'Salam Wa'Rahmatullahi Wa'Barakahtuhu
Bismillah'hir Rahman'nir Raheem
*Praise be to Allaah Almighty*
Ba'arak Allahu Feek Ya Akhi in Islam for your Question Subhan'Allah. However we seems bit confused reading your Question but to the pretext that we understood what you are asking is that Husband Refusing Sexual Advances to his wife isn't if so than we will address this however if we have misinterpreted your Question than you may rephrase your Question again In Sha Allah and post.
Firstly
We would like to start that Allah Subhanahoo'Wa'Ta'ala has permitted man's to forsake there wives on bed with conditions ie if your wife doesn't listen to you or disobey you or try to behave rudely to you or don't take care of your children's or don't respect your parents or any unusual aspects that forces man to forsake her on bed is than permissible as per the Qur'an Ayah where Allah Subhanahoo'Wa'Ta'ala Says:
*Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.*
[An-Nisa 4:34]
Please note that the third part, where it says strike them, all scholars agree that it should be like the Prophet Muhammad Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam did, where He Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam would jokingly hit them with a Miswak, so that it should not hurt them nor leave any mark on the body Subhan'Allah.
As you can see the second part clearly gives a husband the right to forsake sex with the wife until they are obedient.
Allah Subhanahoo'Wa'Ta'ala says, first let them know that you're upset, if they don't listen then refuse to fulfill their desires, if again they don't listen, then as a last resort strike them (to signify that this is the last straw). If all three does not change your wife's behavior, then you're advised to discuss divorce, and then divorce as a last option.
However in order to address the issue there are merits and demrits in such situations because as soon as you refuse sexual advances and if her faith and fear of Allaah Subhanawa'Ta'ala isn't that strong than in both the case there are chances that wives fall into malpractice and adulterous act Astaqfirullah and we don't say this will happen but this is again a possibility Subhan'Allah.
Therefore such a situation has to be dealt with presence of mind and intellectuality to avoid unwanted circumstances mourned with on going issues surrounding Subhan'Allah.
As you can see the second part clearly gives a husband the right to forsake sex with the wife until they are obedient.
But as we mentioned this has its own complications but we will advice do such act only if it is genuinely needed Subhan'Allah and same goes for even wive's too Subhan'Allah.
We hope now the Questioner has understood the answer in the right contest and will not bait unwanted if it can be avoided In Sha Allah.
*May Peace Be Upon Prophet Muhammad and His Families and His Companions*
Allaah Hu A'ala Wa'alam
*Question*
Salaam aleikum Waramontulah Wabarakatuh. Yah Sheik!
Please What's the Ruling of a Wife that refuse Sexual Advances from the Husband?
May Allah preserve you and us upon Khair
Walaykum As'Salam Wa'Rahmatullahi Wa'Barakahtuhu
Bismillah'hir Rahman'nir Raheem
*Praise be to Allaah Almighty*
Ba'arak Allahu Feek Ya Akhi in Islam for your Question Subhan'Allah. However we seems bit confused reading your Question but to the pretext that we understood what you are asking is that Husband Refusing Sexual Advances to his wife isn't if so than we will address this however if we have misinterpreted your Question than you may rephrase your Question again In Sha Allah and post.
Firstly
We would like to start that Allah Subhanahoo'Wa'Ta'ala has permitted man's to forsake there wives on bed with conditions ie if your wife doesn't listen to you or disobey you or try to behave rudely to you or don't take care of your children's or don't respect your parents or any unusual aspects that forces man to forsake her on bed is than permissible as per the Qur'an Ayah where Allah Subhanahoo'Wa'Ta'ala Says:
*Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.*
[An-Nisa 4:34]
Please note that the third part, where it says strike them, all scholars agree that it should be like the Prophet Muhammad Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam did, where He Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam would jokingly hit them with a Miswak, so that it should not hurt them nor leave any mark on the body Subhan'Allah.
As you can see the second part clearly gives a husband the right to forsake sex with the wife until they are obedient.
Allah Subhanahoo'Wa'Ta'ala says, first let them know that you're upset, if they don't listen then refuse to fulfill their desires, if again they don't listen, then as a last resort strike them (to signify that this is the last straw). If all three does not change your wife's behavior, then you're advised to discuss divorce, and then divorce as a last option.
However in order to address the issue there are merits and demrits in such situations because as soon as you refuse sexual advances and if her faith and fear of Allaah Subhanawa'Ta'ala isn't that strong than in both the case there are chances that wives fall into malpractice and adulterous act Astaqfirullah and we don't say this will happen but this is again a possibility Subhan'Allah.
Therefore such a situation has to be dealt with presence of mind and intellectuality to avoid unwanted circumstances mourned with on going issues surrounding Subhan'Allah.
As you can see the second part clearly gives a husband the right to forsake sex with the wife until they are obedient.
But as we mentioned this has its own complications but we will advice do such act only if it is genuinely needed Subhan'Allah and same goes for even wive's too Subhan'Allah.
We hope now the Questioner has understood the answer in the right contest and will not bait unwanted if it can be avoided In Sha Allah.
*May Peace Be Upon Prophet Muhammad and His Families and His Companions*
Allaah Hu A'ala Wa'alam